Powerful advice to side chicks, friends, mothers-in-law and outsiders who poison marriages. Don't be the reason a home is broken. Read this before you destroy someone's family.
*DON'T BE A REASON A MAN HAS REFUSED TO TAKE CARE OF HIS FAMILY AND DON'T BE A REASON A WOMAN HAS REFUSED TO TAKE CARE OF HER HUSBAND*
This message is for somebody. You may be the reason a home is breaking and you don't even know.
*TO THE WOMEN OUT THERE:*
Don't be the reason a man has refused to take care of his family.
That man you are collecting money from every week, do you know his children have not paid school fees? Do you know his wife is borrowing garri from neighbours? Do you know he has stopped buying food at home because he is spending everything on you?
You call him "my odogwu, my sugar daddy, my mugu" and you are happy. But you are eating the food of innocent children. You are wearing the school fees of another woman's children.
If he buys you bone straight, his children wear rags. If he lodges you in hotel, his family sleeps hungry.
What will you gain if you scatter another woman's home? Today you are enjoying, tomorrow you will be the wife crying.
Some women will say "It's the man's fault." Yes, the man is guilty, but you too who collects, who encourages, who says "leave your wife, I will give you what she cannot give you" - you are also guilty before God.
Don't be a home breaker. Don't be the reason a responsible man suddenly became irresponsible.
*TO THE MEN OUT THERE:*
Don't be the reason a woman has refused to take care of her husband.
That married woman you are chatting with, calling "my love" at night, telling "your husband does not deserve you" - do you know you are planting poison in her heart? Before she met you, she was managing her home. Now after your sweet words, she sees her husband as a nobody.
You tell her "leave him, I will take care of you." But you will not marry her. You are just destroying what another man suffered to build.
That friend who advises a woman to disrespect her husband, to not cook for him, to not submit, to challenge him in everything - you are destroying a home. Today she is listening to you, tomorrow she will be divorced and you will be nowhere.
*TO MOTHERS-IN-LAW, FRIENDS AND FAMILY MEMBERS:*
Some mothers-in-law are the reason their son no longer takes care of his wife and children. "Don't give your wife money, she is using jazz on you." You have turned your son against his own blood.
Some friends are the reason a woman no longer respects her husband. You sit in gossip group and say "Don't allow any man control you. Show him you are strong woman." You have given her advice that you yourself cannot practice in your own home.
Hear this:
Marriage is hard already. Don't make it harder with your mouth, your advice, your selfishness.
If you cannot help a home to stand, don't help it to fall.
If you cannot bring peace, don't bring confusion.
On the last day, God will ask you about the homes you destroyed with your hands, your body, your words.
Be wise. Let another man's family be. Let another woman's husband be. Let another man's wife be.
What you don't want someone to do to your own marriage tomorrow, don't do to someone else's today.
This is your word for today.
_This article originally appeared on Imo Media Hub._
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